The Real Path to Spiritual Growth: Lessons from Gunatitanand Swami

Moving Forward—or Standing Still?

Life often brings us to the same crossroads, the same opportunities, the same acts of service. Yet not everyone moves in the same direction. Some advance steadily, finding peace and depth, while others seem to circle the same ground—outwardly busy but inwardly stagnant.

What makes the difference? Gunatitanand Swami, the first spiritual successor of Bhagwan Swaminarayan, offers a timeless insight: “It’s not just what we do that matters, but how we do it.”

“Spiritual growth doesn’t come from action alone—it comes from the attitude behind the action.”

Two people may perform the same seva, chant the same prayers, and attend the same sabha, yet one grows in peace while the other grows in pride. The difference lies not in the deed, but in the heart that performs it.

Ego: The Silent Obstacle to Progress

When “I” Gets in the Way of “Hari”

Ego rarely announces itself loudly. It slips in quietly, often dressed as confidence, competence, or success. The moment we begin to think, “I did this,” “I deserve recognition,” or “I know better,” we begin to drift from real spiritual progress.

“The moment we start thinking, ‘I did this,’ or ‘I deserve that,’ we begin to drift from real progress.”

Gunatitanand Swami often warned devotees that ego is like a hidden current—it pulls us backward even when we think we’re moving forward. We may still serve, pray, or lead, but the energy behind those actions changes. What was once seva becomes self-centered effort; what was once humility becomes subtle pride.

The Power of Humble Effort

Sincerity Over Show

“It’s not about being seen—it’s about being sincere.”

Spiritual growth is not measured by titles, applause, or visible impact—it is measured by sincerity. Bhagwan Swaminarayan valued the heart behind every act more than the act itself. Even a small offering—if made with humility—carries immense spiritual weight.

When we serve selflessly, we move closer to God because we mirror His nature. God gives constantly without expectation; the humble devotee serves in the same way. Each act of humility, each moment of silent service, becomes a step forward on the spiritual path.

In Gunatitanand Swami’s discourses (Swamini Vato), he explains that when we remove ego, wisdom naturally flows in. Just as sunlight enters a clean window, divine understanding shines through a humble heart.

The Heart of True Service

Service That Renews the Soul

When seva becomes ego-driven, it depletes. When seva becomes love-driven, it renews. The difference is profound yet subtle: duty without devotion feels heavy, but devotion without ego feels light.

“Those who humbly seek spiritual knowledge and serve selflessly continue to evolve.”

Every act of service, when offered with humility, nourishes both the giver and the receiver. It cleanses the heart, deepens faith, and invites divine grace.

This is why saints often say, “Serve as if God Himself is the one you’re serving.” Because, in truth, He is—residing in every person, watching every intention.

To know more about Gunatitanand Swami: https://www.baps.org/About-BAPS/TheFounder%E2%80%93BhagwanSwaminarayan/TheSpiritualLineage-TheGuruParampara/GunatitanandSwami.aspx

Swamini Vato Study App: thesatsanglife.com/vato